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Discussion in 'Offtopic' started by HARPO!, 10 May 2018.

  1. envylife

    envylife Well-Known Member

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    Most people seem fine to hang out with a group of people and call them friends when in reality none of them would step up when things go bad. In other words it is really hard to find friends who can be depended upon outside of hanging out.

    I find the best way to attract casual friendships is to find a special interest group, or competitive league. Anything from a chess club to bowling league to book club to competitive rock climbing, and hundreds of others beyond that. Attend these casual meetings focusing on whatever you like to do for a hobby and a side effect is that you will start breaking the ice with strangers. Meetup.com is one way to find local groups who meet regularly on many different topics... and if you don't find what you like exactly, create your own group, schedule a meeting or event, even at a public bar/restaurant, and see who shows up. It may take months to build your own group, so I don't actually recommend it, but you'll find more people with your interests than you expect.
     
  2. JoshW

    JoshW Well-Known Member

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    Thank you all for the advice!!
     
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  3. Agile Vanguard

    Agile Vanguard Well-Known Member

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    ;)
     
  4. SupremeCalamitas

    SupremeCalamitas Well-Known Member

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    People IRL sometimes say I'm heartless lol
     
  5. TheAntiSnipe

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    I'm called cold. Don't let it bother you
     
  6. SupremeCalamitas

    SupremeCalamitas Well-Known Member

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    I embrace the infamy lol

    Also a joke on BB infamy now that I think of it
     
  7. Uerguy

    Uerguy Well-Known Member

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    I just want you to know that you aren't alone in this struggle, alright? You are never alone.
     
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  8. Uerguy

    Uerguy Well-Known Member

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    I always have conflicting thoughts and emotions. Even as I type this, I hesitate to express what I truly want to express.
    Welcome to my mind ladies and gents.
     
  9. Rogue Blueberry

    Rogue Blueberry Well-Known Member

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    Shooter vs Shooter
     
  10. JoshW

    JoshW Well-Known Member

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    I feel you, about ten times a day I type something up then decide to delete it.
     
  11. SupremeCalamitas

    SupremeCalamitas Well-Known Member

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    Bout 12 here
     
  12. SupremeCalamitas

    SupremeCalamitas Well-Known Member

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    All yo neurons be running around like they don't know where they are?

    I can't imagine typing up a 500 word essay and then deleting it.. :eek::eek:
     
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  13. Agile Vanguard

    Agile Vanguard Well-Known Member

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    Just now, I was typing something up and I deleted. At least I can relate to some people
     
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  14. SupremeCalamitas

    SupremeCalamitas Well-Known Member

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    I sometimes do it as well.
     
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  15. SupremeCalamitas

    SupremeCalamitas Well-Known Member

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    Of course you can always talk with a professional.
     
  16. JoshW

    JoshW Well-Known Member

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    I can't afford a professional lmao
     
  17. Agile Vanguard

    Agile Vanguard Well-Known Member

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  18. Flint

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    No need to feel lonely, because you are part of only 4% with the same personality. Just accept who you are and love yourself, that is the most important. I am glad not everybody is the same and I can usually get along with all different kinds of people. And I am not an average humanbeing either, I don't mind. Although I am more a Campaigner (ENFP-a) type according to the website, but I have friends who are INFP also. I see no problem there and thinks it makes life more interesting. And people who do see a problem are narrow minded in my opinion or are afraid of the unknown.

    Regards,
    Flint
     
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  19. NeptuneGaming

    NeptuneGaming Active Member

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    Hehe im 15 but i look like 5 irl
     
  20. NeptuneGaming

    NeptuneGaming Active Member

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    U mean shock wave grenade
     

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