Community Bonding

Lol, how ironic, I got Defender (ISFJ).

 

same here, lmao
it describes me almost perfectly...and that's really creepy

 

I'm an INTJ... guess i'm the 2% then lol

 

ESTP - T apparently

 

Google also said INFPs do well in music. Yay.. but..

Is... Is it watching me?

 

Google knows more from you than you know. They collect data and see from all your searches what kind of person you are. They can even tell if someone is pregnant, sometimes even before the person knows it herself. Due to hormon changes with pregnant women they also start to look up other things on Google, like another perfume because of it. There taste changes a bit, so hence they would most likely to order different perfume than normal. And Google has algoritms which can figure these things out. Very scary indeed... You can find these case on the internet.

That is why I use www.ixquick.com or duckduckgo.com.


Regards,
Flint

 

Hey, need some good life advice here as I'm not an adult yet. I'm antisocial but I have many friendly people around me at school. I find it hard to find friendships so I feel lonely at times. Conversations are just awkward because I have nothing interesting to say. I could say I dislike my personality type. I'm only ever comfortable with the people I know. Any solutions?

 

Hello,

First of all I don't think you are antisocial, you are just having a harder time around people you (barely) know. A lot of youngsters are insecure and it can be hard to find your way in life. But don't say you dislike yourself, accept yourself who you are and give yourself time to try to work on things you think need improvement. If you want to talk to others you don't know, try to find common ground or common interest with others, so you can talk about that. Sometimes it is just the weather, but you might both like computer games, music, sports or whatever. So, just ask someone if they like this or that and go from there

Above all don't look down upon yourself and don't say you have nothing interesting to say, what I read here on the forum you have plenty of good things to say. Just try to expand that and practise that in real life. And accept that with some people you just cannot have a (good) conversation. Nothing wrong with that, we are all different.

Good luck!

Regards,
Flint

 

Thanks.

I'm glad Harpo created this thread.

Regards,
Motivated forum member

 

Happy to help! If you have more questions, please feel free to ask!

 

I have a question... What if your girlfriend does not like talking about the weather and then you almost fall off your bike because you have to laugh soooooooo loudly?

Nikkie

 

Uhm... Yeah... XD
Because it was funny?


We were going home and we didn’t know where to talk about. So I said for fun, let’s talk about the weather and she was like: No! Then we are just like those very old people... But we still talked...
We talked like old granny’s about the weather and about Konnie, a leaf/leave who couldn’t do idk what (Konnie is when with space Kon nie, what should mean couldn’t) and it’s autumn rn, and we talked about that tree over there that this morning 50 leaves had and now only 39 etc...

 

Yeah, talking about windmills was a better idea

 

Hey Nikkies,

She does not want tot alk about the weather, but why is that sooo laughable? A girls thing?

 

Not specified a girls thing, but well... Okay...

Even kijken hoor, sorry voor alle engelse mensen, de vertaling komt later, no worries!

Tja... We fietsen altijd samen maar school en terug en dan praten we over van alles en nog wat... De ene keer windmolens, dan weer over die meneer die blikjes op aan het rapen was...
We waren even inspiratieloos, een woord als ik het goed heb.
Dus ik stelde voor dat we over het weer zouden praten, maar eigenlijk vond ze dat niet zo’n goed idee hahaha
Maar als je het gaat hebben over: “*oude oma stem* Meid, heb je al gezien dat die boom geen blaadjes meer heeft?
En zij zo van: Nee dat had ik nog niet gezien, ik weet zeker dat hij vanochtend al zijn blaadjes nog wel had!
Tja... Op die manier werd de laatste kilometer een hele gezellige

Okeej, ik pak m’n translate er even bij, ben zo terug!

Let's see, sorry for all English people, the translation comes later, no worries!

Well ... We always cycle together but school and back and then we talk about anything and everything ... Sometimes windmills, then again about that gentleman who was picking up cans ...
We were as uninspiring, a word as I am right.
So I suggested that we talk about the weather, but actually she did not think that was a good idea hahaha
But if you're talking about: "* old grandmother voice * Maid, have you seen that tree no longer has leaves?
And they like: No, I had not seen that yet, I'm sure he still had all of his leaves this morning!
Well ... That way the last kilometer became a very pleasant one

Okay, I'll take my translate for a moment, be right back!

Have to make my homework, will be edditing later

Nikkie

 

Haha , ik snap em. Bedankt voor je uitleg! Je moet het zelf gezellig maken en gelukkig doen jullie dat ook.

Inspiratieloos is idd één woord.